Ok so I was watching Cougar Town the other night (don’t judge me, it’s super funny), and the episode mainly revolved around whether or not it’d be possible to have sex with an ex without one of the parties getting some of the old feelings back.

We all know how it goes, you promise yourself that you wouldn’t have anything to do again with the ex and removed any trace of the relationship from your home and of course facebook. Then one night it happens — you are out at a bar and run into your former partner. You have a few drinks and reminisce about old times and find yourself strangely aroused. The next morning arrives and you awaken to find the loser next to you in your bed, causing you to put a pillow over your head in regret. Your ex wakes up and says, “I had a great time with you. Do you want to do it again?”

Sound familiar? If you have slept with your ex-partner, you are not alone. It’s only natural to want to return to what’s familiar. How often have you heard someone say, “We never really got along — but the sex was great,” or “We had nothing in common except for the bedroom.” Read the rest of this entry »